The continued violence against the LGBTIQA community has sparked deep feelings of vulnerability, rage, and terror in me. Every news report of a vicious assault or murder in our community is very personal to me and has an impact on […]
My Story
Readers of Love Matters tell of their own experiences – from when they got dumped or when they found a lump. And feel free to share your stories.
How Mokeira is making the world a better place for LGBTQ+ in Kisii
Mokeira’s tale unfolds; a testament to resilience and advocacy, against the vibrant backdrop of Kisii. In the heartland of Kisii, Mokeira’s journey was far from smooth. Raised in a small village where homosexuality was a foreign and forbidden concept, they […]
I am gay, disabled, and jolly: Here’s my story
This stage of my life was filled with extreme challenges. The challenges were not only physical but also mental as I was negotiating my sexual orientation. I am a gay man living in a society that often hates LGBTIQA+ people […]
8 reasons why you should teach your kids about consent
Her dreams of acquiring an education have been disrupted not by a stranger but by someone well-known to her and her family: their houseboy! Upon interrogation, the teenager opened up that the houseboy had molested her severally and issued threats […]
How it’s like being a queer in Kenya: A Poem
I don’t know about you But I love being in the closet I love chipping in on homophobic conversations Weird right? 😃 I always make sure I put across a point or two on the same See and hear people […]
Let’s talk religion and sexuality
My son has low self-esteem, how can I help him?
I know how it feels to have low self-esteem as a teenager especially in the context of sexual health and reproductive rights. I was much younger than my classmates when I started school, and I had to deal with the […]
Naogopa intimacy juu niko na penis ndogo, niko sawa?
Ni totally normal kukua concerned but pleasure is more than the size of manhood. The size of your penis does not determine your sexual pleasure and satisfaction. Everyone is different, and it takes time to learn to be confident and […]
Is it wrong for men to wear thongs?
Fast forward to today, thongs is exclusively seen as part of women’s style. Yet, there are thongs designed specifically for men. Wearing thongs, like many aspects of fashion, is a personal choice and not inherently gender-specific. Society’s traditional norms and […]
An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away
Masturbation is very good for your physical and mental health. Here’s how: First, it is super pleasurable. If you’ve stroked into a tube sock, humped a pillow like a horny hare, taken hand or vibe to bits, or really enjoyed […]
What’s your favorite part about sex?
Well, first it is totally normal for your partner to have different preferences. it depends on both of you and the attraction that you have for one another and communicating on what’s the difference between just having sex and making […]
How do I know if I’m good in bed?
One such question that frequently arises is, ‘My woman is too loud during sex, does it mean I am good in bed?’ At times the louder the scream the more validation we feel about our prowess, this may be true […]